She’ll Remarry at 63, and When Her Ex-Husband Dies, Social Security Will Still Pay Her Survivor Benefits on His Record Every Month
Remarrying after a divorce can quietly erase a Social Security claim worth hundreds of dollars a month, but the timing of that wedding changes everything. The age you walk down the aisle a second time determines whether a deceased ex-husband's…
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A divorced woman married for at least 10 years holds a claim on her ex-husband’s Social Security record after divorce. If she remarries at 63 and her ex-husband dies, she can still collect Social Security survivor benefits on his record. However, remarriage before age 60 ends this claim, and any instance of remarriage at 60 or later does not.
A Wedding After 60 Keeps the Ex’s Record Open
Social Security pays two kinds of ex-spouse benefits. The Social Security Administration says divorced spouse benefits are paid while the ex is alive and generally stop when the recipient remarries. Surviving divorced spouse benefits start after the ex dies, and a remarriage at age 60 or later (age 50 with a disability) does not cancel them. When her former husband dies, she can file as his surviving divorced spouse while still married to her new husband. She can receive up to 100% of his benefit if she claims survivor benefits at her full retirement age, which falls between ages 66 and 67.
Federal Regulations Back the Exception in Writing
Survivor benefits for divorced spouses are governed by 20 C.F.R. §404.336. To qualify, the claimant must have been married to the worker for at least 10 years immediately before the divorce became final, and the worker must have died fully insured. The claimant must also be at least 60 years old, or at least 50 with a qualifying disability. The remarriage exception sits in 20 C.F.R. §404.335(e): a remarriage at 60 or later does not end eligibility. On her podcast, personal finance commentator Suze Orman summed up the age line: “If you get remarried at 60 or after, you can still qualify. But do not get remarried before 60 if you want survivor benefits.”
Who Qualifies and Who Gets Shut Out
Ultimately, overall eligibility comes down to a short checklist:
- The marriage lasted at least 10 years before the divorce was final.
- The ex-spouse has died and was fully insured under Social Security.
- The claimant is at least 60, or at least 50 and disabled.
- The claimant never remarried, remarried at 60 or later, or remarried before 60 and that marriage has since ended.
A person who remarried before age 60 and is still married does not qualify. Eligibility returns only if the later marriage ends. A marriage that lasted less than 10 years also does not qualify. A claim by an ex-wife does not reduce what the deceased’s widow or children receive, because ex-spouses don’t count toward the family maximum.
How to Claim Survivor Benefits on an Ex’s Record
- Gather documents. Find the marriage certificate and final divorce decree to show the marriage lasted 10 years.
- Check the remarriage date. Compare the new marriage date with your 60th birthday.
- Contact Social Security after the death. Call 1-800-772-1213 and provide your ex’s Social Security number. If that doesn’t work, provide his date of birth and his parents’ names.
- Pick your claiming age. Payments start at 71.5% of the ex’s benefit at 60, rise to over 80% at age 63 and over 90% at age 65, and reach 100% at survivor full retirement age.
- Watch the earnings test. In 2026, Social Security deducts $1 for every $2 earned above $24,480 if below full retirement age. In the year you reach that age, the limit rises to $65,160, with $1 withheld for every $3 above it.
- Plan a switch. A claimant can start with survivor benefits and change to her own retirement benefit at age 70.
One Check Only: Where This Rule Catches People
Her new marriage gives her a second potential benefit, a spousal benefit on her new husband’s record. Social Security will not pay both. She gets the higher of the survivor benefit on her ex’s record or the spousal benefit on her new husband’s. The agency says simply that “the payments won’t be added together.” Her own retirement benefit goes into that comparison too. Claiming survivor benefits before full retirement age also locks in a permanently smaller monthly amount.
Survivor payments get the annual cost-of-living adjustment. As of August 1, 2026, the 2027 adjustment was tracking toward 3.3%, with 2 of 3 measurement months counted. Social Security usually announces the final figure in October.
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David Beren has been a Flywheel Publishing contributor since 2022. Writing for 24/7 Wall St. since 2023, David loves to write about topics of all shapes and sizes. As a technology expert, David focuses heavily on consumer electronics brands, automobiles, and general technology. He has previously written for LifeWire, formerly About.com. As a part-time freelance writer, David’s “day job” has been working on and leading social media for multiple Fortune 100 brands. David loves the flexibility of this field and its ability to reach customers exactly where they like to spend their time. Additionally, David previously published his own blog, TmoNews.com, which reached 3 million readers in its first year. In addition to freelance and social media work, David loves to spend time with his family and children and relive the glory days of video game consoles by playing any retro game console he can get his hands on.
