Everyone wants to be wealthy.
Yet as finance coach Dave Ramsey often points out, there is a reason the saying “the rich get richer and the poor get poorer” continues to ring true.

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- As Dave Ramsey will tell you, “the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.”
- According to the St. Louis Fed, the top 10% of U.S. households by wealth had about $6.9 million on average. The bottom 50% of households had $51,000 on average.
- Meanwhile, the middle class will make payments, such as monthly car payments. They think they can make a fortune on airline miles from their credit card payments.
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Consider this. According to the St. Louis Federal Reserve, the top 10% of U.S. households by wealth had about $6.9 million on average. As a group, they held 67% of household wealth. The bottom 50% of households had $51,000 on average. As a group, they held about 2.5% of the total household wealth in the country.
So, why is the wealth gap so big?

Dave Ramsey argues that your financial habits often determine whether you stay in the poor, middle, or upper class. It is not just about how much you earn. It is about the decisions you make with the money you already have.
According to Ramsey, wealthy people approach spending very differently. They do not ask “How much per month?” They ask “How much?” They buy things outright to avoid interest charges, which quietly drain cash over time. By sidestepping debt and the extra costs that come with it, they keep more of their money working for them.
The middle class tends to think in monthly payments. They take on car loans, rely on credit card rewards to justify spending, and borrow for home upgrades. These choices feel manageable, but they chip away at long term wealth.
Ramsey also points out that poor consumers often become trapped by high cost financial products. Payday lenders, pawn shops, title loans, and rent to own stores promise quick fixes but come with steep fees. Many also pin their hopes on gambling or lottery tickets. Ramsey notes that most lottery sales come from poorer zip codes, where people believe a lucky win will solve everything.
None of this means your financial path is fixed. You can change how you spend, save, and approach money. With the right habits, anyone can shift their trajectory and build a stronger financial future.
If you want to build wealth, there are some big steps you can take
First, look for ways to boost your income. Dividend paying stocks can create a steady stream of passive cash flow, and a part time job can help increase your financial cushion if your schedule allows.
Second, build a budget and actually use it. This step is essential. Without tracking what comes in and what goes out, most people underestimate their spending. When I ask people where their money is going, the most common response is “I’m not sure.” That uncertainty is exactly what leads to financial trouble.
Third, establish an emergency fund if you do not already have one. Start with a small, realistic goal of one thousand dollars. Even though it may not seem like much, it gives you a buffer. Saving around eighty five dollars a month can get you there quickly. Keep this money in a separate account that you do not touch, and automate your deposits. If you receive extra income like a bonus or a gift, put it straight into the emergency fund instead of spending it.
Fourth, begin paying down your debt. This includes credit cards, student loans, mortgages, and car loans. Dave Ramsey recommends the debt snowball approach, where you list your debts from smallest to largest and pay off the smallest one first. As each balance disappears, you build momentum and motivation to tackle the bigger ones.
Fifth, live below your means. Suze Orman often emphasizes this, and for good reason. Financial freedom depends on knowing the difference between wants and needs and trimming unnecessary expenses. Automate your saving and set a clear target for how much you want to keep each month.
Sixth, invest in your retirement accounts. An Individual Retirement Account can help you grow your money tax deferred or tax free. A traditional IRA may allow you to deduct contributions, while a Roth IRA offers tax free growth and tax free withdrawals in retirement. Always check with a financial advisor to determine what works best for your situation. If you are self employed, consider a Solo 401(k), which provides higher contribution limits and valuable tax advantages.
These habits take time and discipline, but they can shift your financial trajectory and strengthen your long term security.